This sounds simple --- yet can be very
difficult. Since the majority of us tend to have our emotions arise
unconsciously. You might not be deliberately selecting your emotions on a daily
basis. There are hundreds of emotions, but five emotions change your life for
good or bad.
1. Emotional Radiance
Emotional Radiance (ER) amplifies emotion. ER increases
all love and increases all fear. All emotions radiate in the
direction of one or the other.
Painful emotions felt in
relation to a lover’s quarrel, money vanished, and health challenges radiate in
the fear spectrum. So when your Emotional Radiance points toward
fear, you feel anger, frustration, disappointment, etc.
Activate your ER toward the good stuff in life, and particularly love and
wealth, so that the emotions you feel toward love, money, and finances are expressed
as joy, excitement, hope, love and gratitude.
How can you build your emotional radiance with
love, abundance, and non-material goods?
Try beginning and
ending each day with a ceremony that rejoices in abundance and emotionally
excites or uplifts you. Choose an inspiring poem
or music, a visually powerful video, or beautiful picture. And then add in your
own declarations of health for some added energy.
2.
Perceptual Radiance
Perceptual Radiance (PR) is determined by how you habitually
perceive the world. Tony Robbins wrote if you could change one word, you could walk
barefoot on hot coals. The one word he would change is the word "percept
[ion]."
Your brain has
hardwired itself to perceive your current reality in a specific way – and not
necessarily an accurate way --- based
on the perceptions you consistently had in the past.
It has also created strong connections: pairing certain events, people and physical sensations --- with particular emotional states.
It has also created strong connections: pairing certain events, people and physical sensations --- with particular emotional states.
In other words, you perceive
your present reality as a repetition of your past emotional experiences, even
when the actual reality may be different. What you perceive triggers
those past emotions all over again --- both good and bad emotions! This leads
to a vicious cycle or broken record of the past that is literally hardwired
into your brain and biology (remember that your emotions are also chemical and
biological).
How can you rewire
your brain to align your perception with your desires? The Soichiro Honda, founder Honda Corporation, uses the words "Kick out the ladder!" Here video, from
Honda Corporation, which catches the heart of the Honda founder. http://www.symbiosis4u.us/MP4/IntoTheUnknown.html
There are several ways to accomplish this such as vigilant thinking, affirmations or thought replacement (every time you catch yourself thinking something negative, replace it with a positive thought). However thinking requires significant willpower, time and effort. Most of us simply don’t have the regular time or dependable willpower --- kick out the ladder.
There are several ways to accomplish this such as vigilant thinking, affirmations or thought replacement (every time you catch yourself thinking something negative, replace it with a positive thought). However thinking requires significant willpower, time and effort. Most of us simply don’t have the regular time or dependable willpower --- kick out the ladder.
3. Informational Radiance
Informational Radiance (IR) is simply the knowledge, and facts, you
speak, write, or signify in some way. You communicate and reason – with
yourself or with others.
The information you
learn and commit to (through belief, teaching or demonstrating) is used to
validate your perceptions and emotions. As your IR aligns with
what you want, you feel good, or feel bad --- automatically.
You’ll also find that the more knowledge you
gain about yourself and the way you operate best to get what you want… the
easier it becomes to achieve your goals because you’re working with yourself,
rather than against yourself.
4. Behavioral Radiance
Behavioral Radiance (BR) is established through your habitual
actions, the concrete ways you communicate your inner emotions to the outside
world and the responses you receive back from the world. This interaction is
called mirroring. What you do comes back to you.
This is where the rubber meets the road.
You transform your own
Emotional Radiance, through the mirrors of Behavioral Radiance. In other words, the responses you receive
from the outside world change how you feel. It’s important however to distinguish between intended actions (mind)
and habitual behaviors (emotions).
It is your Behavioral
Radiance that needs to be transformed. Because intended actions (mind) cannot hope to
compete with your 10,000 habitual words (emotions): distractions,
procrastinations, physical postures, and habitual choices (such as what to eat
or where to spend your time) that you make every single day.
Science says that humans create a new habit in
21 days. I recommend focusing on your Behavioral Radiance for at least 60 days
to create a habit. Since we’re all human, we might miss a few days here or
there in the 21 day --- that why the 60 days. You can with start with the 21
days every time you hiccup (one second) on your BR, you begin again for 21 days.
5. Reciprocal Radiance
What we radiate --- returns to us. Likewise,
what others radiate toward us can affect our own frequency. This is why your outer environment and the
people you allow into your space can largely determine your happiness and
income levels.
Think about five
friends who have been friends for five years. Five years ago, those five friends’
incomes were different; some had more education than others, and they had diverse
dreams. In most cases, after five years all five friends will have about the
same amount of income, or they will stop being friends. They simply no longer
radiate on the same frequency.
How is this possible? At a scientific level it is because closed
systems of energy must maintain equilibrium. When you exchange energy with
another person (through exchanging ideas, emotions, conversation or physical
engagement) you open your system to their system and vice versa.
You and a new friend create a new closed system
and must eventually reach equilibrium. If you continue to share energy, and
stay in each other’s energy fields, (which does not require close physical
proximity, but rather emotional proximity) you reach balance.
Therefore when someone projects an emotion
towards you, and you engage them in any way that allows an exchange of energy. You
are naturally triggered to respond with emotions of your own.
For example, when someone showers you with
supportive energy you will naturally feel peace, ease, protection and safety.
When someone radiates love and joy you will naturally feel more buoyant and
carefree or joyous around them --- that is abundance.
In this way our reciprocal energies “bounce”
back and forth and build in intensity as they reinforce each other.
Five words change your life, if
you get out of your own way?
Be happy, healthy, wise, and
abundance,
Tom Van Drielen
Symbiosis
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